usafmedic45
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Perhaps you should read the above words again. Jealousy, resentment, loathing...none of things make a good Paramedic let alone brother. There is no defense for one human being purposefully trying to destroy another by his word or deed.
So you are saying we should pass someone who is not meeting the standards set forth by our profession, meager as they are? That is all I did. The fact that I don't like my brother has nothing to do with it and the fact that he was failed by no less than four other instructors- classroom and clinical- should give some indication to the quality of a person you believe I was just mistreating because I don't like him.
Also why the hell would I be jealous of my younger brother who does nothing but sit and play X-Box all day while wasting his life. I have a much more fulfilling life than he does. It's not like he is exactly anything to be envious of. I will agree I do resent his sponging off of my grandmother and loathe his lack of ability to lead a productive life, but unlike you I can separate a disdain for his actions and his lack of talent from a disdain for him personally. If he were to pull his head out of his butt and prove me wrong, then I would be the first to help him pursue whatever his heart desired but until such actions occur he is simply another person who could not pass muster. Hell, if he could make something out of himself, I might actually admit to having a second sibling when asked so I say more power to him if he has the ability to do so.
As for trying to "destroy" him, I did nothing of the sort. If I wanted to do that, I'm pretty sure he would not be a hard one to push over the edge and I would not have to worry about him any longer. However, due to moral and ethical restraints, I don't see that as a valid option so I simply marginalize his role in my life and act like he doesn't exist unless our paths cross. I simply protected future patients from another incompetent provider who was my brother. That is exactly the sort of thing that separates the professionals from the uneducated morons in this field. We have a duty to protect our profession and those who rely upon us. If you fail to see that, then you may need to reassess how you decide who you want as a colleague. The moment you find yourself able to not judge the actions of another and hold them responsible is the day you can start lecturing me on my actions. It is also the day you surrender your IC credential because you are abandoning the one of the primary functions of an instructor: to act as a gatekeeper and standard bearer for the profession. That however is a topic for another day.
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