I generally agree with your point but most people don't know what a medic is. People's impression ranges from ambulance driver to doctor.
One would have to have been living in a cave for the last 30 years not to have some idea about what a paramedic is. The public may not know the exact job description but do know paramedics are capable of providing life saving therapies. We've also have to cut the public some slack if they are not up to speed on all 48 different EMS certification or the varying scopes of practice from one region to another such as EMT-Bs intubating. I think it is obvious by just the posts on this forum that the education, training, skills and abilities are all over the map even within one title in one state.
EMS has been in the public eye for over 30 years starting with Johnny and Roy. We have had a Paramedic, EMT and/or ambulance appear on almost every show. My old ambulance company even made guest appearances on Miami Vice. Jessica McLure put Paramedics in the public eye with the numerous news articles and a movie. It was even relived years later in the hearts of many when the Paramedic, Robert O'Donnell, committed suicide attributed to PTSD.
Even the recent Air Medical transport crashes have put Paramedics on the national and international news giving the public another view of the profession.
No other profession has gotten so many leading roles and many are positive. Nurses have been stereotyped in Soap Operas and X-Rated movies. While they may cringe, they don't constantly whine even when some read the very negative posts on EMS forums bashing them. Most EMS providers have no clue what a nurse or any other health care professional does and what type of education they must complete to just get an entry level position. Even on the medical shows, you don't see all the healthcare workers that make a hospital run efficiently and are vital to the resuscitation/recovery of every patient the comes into the hospital.
What other profession watches the news almost daily to see if they are shown at any scenes or mentioned? And then, they critique every little thing the reporter says as the story is all about them and not the actual news item. How many articles have we had critiqued on the forums and most probably can not remember what happened to the patients or persons rescued. They just know someone called them an "ambulance driver" or "fire fighter". Who cares if some toddler was shot dead in the street when there is a "bigger story".
I have seen people tell us (includedes responding medic units) they had no previous medical hx but all of a sudden they have AIDS/cardiac when they speak to the triage nurse.
You actually find this hard to believe? In the still very macho world of EMS and the FD, discrimination against people with some diseases is still alive and well even against our own. I suppose some would say that is a very sexist thing for me to write. I would be happy to debate that on another thread.
How much privacy are you giving the patient when asking very personal questions? Usually an ambulance attracts a crowd. If it is just loved ones and friends, has the patient disclosed their health problems to them? Even in the hospital for a routine nebulizer tx or PFT, I have to be careful and not mention anything about the patient's medical condition if family is present. The patient may be familiar with the healthcare system which stresses privacy and does not want the world to know their health problems. The patient may also be hesitant to disclose something that is not related to the what they have called you for. They may also know that you ARE AN EMT-B and know that you will not be giving meds or doing invasive procedures. You may also have been asking the wrong questions.