I'm not very religious. (I'm a recovering catholic) but I've prayed with plenty of patients. I hold a lot of hands and I always try to do something to make sure they remember our service. It's not hard to be outstanding.
I've always been a fan of providing amazing customer service if you have the opportunity. Obviously, the focus changes on critical patients, but when I can, I try to live the Scott Gross lifestyle, believing that "people want to play..." If you want a great read, I recommend one of his books. It should be required for every EMT, along with Thom ****'s "People Care".
Does that mean you're returning to Catholicism?
There was one transport we had, I was in the back. The family only spoke Spanish. The husband was not that old, but was dying. I think it was a stroke that just did him in. He was stable enough to make it home, but he was not long for this world.
The wife had been crying a lot and was upset, I had her in the captain's chair.
I prefer to be on the bench next to my pt with the monitor to my left. When I've got pts that are pretty healthy, I'll turn off the monitor between vitals to save battery. With hospice pts, I keep it on. We're not required to take vitals for DNR, but I do. I guess I just want to know how they're doing with some numbers. I know not to treat the monitor, but if my pt codes, I don't want to be asked how they were before (for QC/QI, EMS stuff or even, if the family asks, etc), and just give them an "Uhhhhh", cause I never once checked. Even if they have a DNR, they still deserve to be monitored and looked after.
I saw on the sheet he was catholic, so I asked her in Spanish if she was. My Spanish is so so. I can pronounce things pretty well. Vocabulary is so so, I'm conversational, but it is sometimes rough. I can crack a few jokes. She said she was, so I pulled my rosary out of my pocket.
After my brother died, the church ladies made one with his name on it. I keep it on me always. I always worry about breaking it, losing it, etc, but I like to keep it close.
I gave it to her, much to my worry about it, maybe the object itself holds more value than it should. It's just a thing. Right?
But, she was very happy to have it for a bit. She immediately started praying the rosary rapidly. I don't know the prayers in Spanish by heart, but I knew the words she was saying and what prayer it was.
She looked better, more energetic, and more calm.
She prayed with it during the ride. She was grateful for it.
Even if I can only bring a small bit of comfort and humanity for a short trip, I'll do it. And I think if people think they're above that, (not saying everyone should have a rosary, but do what you can in your own way for the patients and family), then they don't belong on my truck or any truck or in the uniform.