mycrofft
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Generally it's not best to date or marry a co-worker.
Having a crush...you will have plenty of crushes. Crushes are like salsa, they liven things up, but you don't take a spoon and start slurping it down.
It is a very poor idea, especially while he is responsible for your employment. You will never know how good or bad you really are, he will be under suspicions of either firing you or keeping you based on the temperature of your relationship, and it will breed discontent and jealousy among other workers. It is a very poor idea for him too, as it throws open the door for sexual harassment issues.
Give it a year. Find someone who is not engaged in police or fire for reinforcement of the bigger picture, not narrowly focussed upon life death dirtbags and co-workers.
Having a crush...you will have plenty of crushes. Crushes are like salsa, they liven things up, but you don't take a spoon and start slurping it down.
It is a very poor idea, especially while he is responsible for your employment. You will never know how good or bad you really are, he will be under suspicions of either firing you or keeping you based on the temperature of your relationship, and it will breed discontent and jealousy among other workers. It is a very poor idea for him too, as it throws open the door for sexual harassment issues.
Give it a year. Find someone who is not engaged in police or fire for reinforcement of the bigger picture, not narrowly focussed upon life death dirtbags and co-workers.