beandip4all
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That's good in theory, but who's raising your kids? The cost of child care can largely negate the additional salary. It's not worth it for the second parent to work FT, with shuffling the kids around, for maybe $10/hr or so after child care costs.
There's always the option of having sig other be the primary breadwinner/chief earner. Who says it has to be YOU? With our shifts (1 24, 1 36) it would be easy to swing some sort of arrangement where you are the mainly stay at home parent. I know people I work with do this.
I just... I don't know. Sometimes I think some people in EMS (and I'm not trying to insinuate it's you...just a lot of people I've encountered, both on here and IRL) just feel so ENTITLED. "Yes! Let me work a 'cool' and 'fun' job that 10,000 other people would work for free (volunteer) or would do for less than me, but no no no, I DESERVE a high wage, I deserve lots of overtime, I deserve a great pension."
You people want to make lots of $$$? Want to send your kids to college and summer camp and sports clubs and have a boat and fancy toys? Pursue a different stable and high-paying career. Go be an investment banker, or a tax attorney, an insurance salesman, or an accountant. Work some soul-crushing 9-5 that isn't inspiring, doesn't help people, but pays the bills and lets you lead a comfortable lifestyle.
You want to save lives, do an unconventional, glamorous job? Then get in line, and be willing to do it for less.
Life's all about choices, and you need to figure out what you're willing to sacrifice for, and where you can cut corners.
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