My family would be disappointed, ashamed, and probably angry if I drove past someone in need and did not help. I know I'd be disappointed and ashamed with myself.
I'm pretty sure you're family would be more pissed about having to have the local medical examiner call asking where they can locate your dental records to identify your corpse.
I agree that we have a moral duty to act, even when we don't have an ethical one.
Our first moral and ethical duty is to protect ourselves and to prevent further harm. That overrides everything else and anyone who tells you different is either :censored::censored::censored::censored:ing stupid, really green, flat out psychotic or some heady mix of the three.
Like i said. Its my choice not to stop, and i wont stop. I will call 911 and continue on my merry little way. Youre not gonna sway me no.matter how much you try to dehumanize me.
I'm so proud of you Sasha.
There's a few million Jews alive today because brave men and women had the courage to face Death and say "no, I will not yield, I will stand against this." That's just one example.
As both a Jew and the descendant of a perpetrator (yeah, let's not go there), don't make my whip out a particular circumcised part of my anatomy and start slapping some sense into over the number of logical and historical fallacies inherent in that argument.
For starters, the reason there are several million Jews left in the world is mostly because- big :censored::censored::censored::censored:ing shock- not all of them lived in the occupied territories. New York, Chicago, England to name a few all had huge Jewish populations and not to mention there were large numbers of people who heard what Hitler and his cronies were saying and got the hell out of town before things got worse.
Yes, there were a lot of brave folks who stuck their necks out for Jews and their actions should not be forgotten but I take great personal and professional offense at the suggestion that we should be expected to lay down our lives without question just because some rank and file newbie with his head so far up his own rectum that he can't even be troubled to fact check his argument for soundness says so.
If you feel the need to be a hero, go ahead and try to be one. After the parade and the folding of the flag on your casket, the only people who will remember as anything but a bad example of egregious stupidity will be your family whom you think will be so proud of your actions but ask them how they would feel having to face an empty seat at holidays or seeing your kids growing up without their dad? I'm pretty sure that sort of crushing and overwhelming sorrow will trump the blessing that is knowing their son died a "hero". Even if you don't get the glorious line of duty (while not on duty apparently) death you seem to be so hell bent on achieving for yourself, you will succeed in alienating your colleagues and slowly bleed your career dry.
And it's not foolish to put yourself out there to help in another's time of need. That is called being human and having integrity. Only a fool will turn their back and walk away from a person in need of help.
Risk a little to save a lot, risk a little to save a little, risk nothing to save that which is already lost.
Part of what makes us human is that we will risk everything to help a total stranger.
No, what makes us human is our prefrontal cortex which I am beginning to doubt is fully functional in your case.
Even if I were injured or killed I feel that it its appropriate for me to help
Make sure your organ donor card is signed and ready to go. Also you might want to go ahead and get fingerprinted, keep that and have annually updated copy of your dental records in a big manila envelope to help make the local authorities job of identifying your charred and/or battered carcass a little easier.
I would have a hard time dealing with a preventable death that I could have helped prevent had I acted...ie the recent Utah motorcyclist.
Wow....that's pretty damn egotistical of you given that most trauma deaths are not preventable even with ideal surgical care immediately.
You give one bad example.. but what about the 100 good examples for that one? I think your letting emotion overrule your head.
How about you actually get some real data and show that bystander first aid is actually livesaving in more cases than people are killed or injured assisting every year? There are so few things that are truly immediately lethal that simply alerting the authorities and carrying on your way is not likely to do anymore harm and is far less risky than stopping and getting involved directly.
but I thought it was innate in us to strive to save a life and go the extra mile that an ordinary citizen won't
Nah, that's just BS from TV and movies.
What would your Aunt want you to do now? Make the effort or be selfish?
Nothing like a pointless plea to emotion.....we'll never know what she would do know because she's dead as a result of her decision at the time.
but it's unfair to affect the rest of humanity because of one lost life.
Not to sound like a rehashing of our last debate but: how many dead people does it take to make a point? A dead or injured bystander- off duty provider or not- isn't worth the small benefit of comforting someone or having them stand and look at (or perhaps flog) a corpse.
Instead of having her life be lost in vein why not use it as an example of unselfishness and use it to raise an awareness within yourself.
"Selflessness" is the word you were looking for. She didn't die in vain if someone learns not to make the same mistake she did.
I don't think that that stops when I clock out.
Give it a few years, that will change. If not, there's always Thorazine.