VFlutter
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and as sad as this sounds, somewhere, some woman will have said yes to him. otherwise, men wouldn't do it.
True. And I guarantee some women have said something similar to men
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and as sad as this sounds, somewhere, some woman will have said yes to him. otherwise, men wouldn't do it.
* Some medic tried to randomly kiss her
* Some PATIENT tried to randomly kiss her
* Triage nurse asked if she was single (she was not) and then proceeded to give her a lecture on being a heart-breaker
* EMT she did NOT give her number made a midnight booty call
I mean, it never ends.
(that said, I did meet my ex-wife at work)
I have an attractive female partner who's new to EMS, and I am blown away how many times she gets propositioned, touched, or otherwise sexually harassed in a regular day. Do women really deal with this kind of :censored::censored::censored::censored: all the time?
I have never personally had any
It greatly intrigues me, and irks me just a little, that in the three decades since then that the general public have not accepted females as being just as capable as a male Officer. On watch by-and-large the guys are outnumbered by girls yet there is no difference except which bits are down below.
I haven't read all of the replies but need to add my 2 cents. I am female, 5'1" I weigh about 140 lbs. I know my limits and if I think the patient is too heavy for me to handle the head I will ask my partner to take the head and to load the patient if my partner is a male. If I am paired with another female their have been occasions where we didn't have to ask for help the first responders offered it and we accept. Better to remember our safety first. If someone is too heavy for 2 people to lift safely there is nothing wrong with asking for help. Many EMS end up with back problems from trying to lift more then they can and not asking for help.
All of this is well and good, but there still has to be a minimum standard that all providers need to meet. Where I work, every crew has to be able to take a 300 pound patient (or so), doesn't matter if it's our two tiniest females.
Yes you have to remember your own safety, but you have to be able to do the job to the standard as well.
I will never be more embarrassed than when my partner was too weak to carry a 200 pound man up 12 stairs to his front door. I called for an assist and was given an ETA of an hour (and a tongue lashing for not being to get it done). I told the patient that and he said he was willing to work with us so I ended up dragging the stairchair up the stairs like a dolly with my partner "softening the bumps" by lifting a little a bit from the foot.
It happened again and a rival ambulance company was nice enough to come help us, but after that she was taken off the road until she could pass the lift test, which she somehow got out of taking before being hired.
I have worked with guys that were weak as well, and that didn't make me happy either. I have also worked with women that could outlift me no problem.
Why are nurses not given a lift test?
Because nursing is a profession and not a trade.
We :censored::censored::censored::censored::censored: about not getting the clinical respect then complain when our partners aren't competent truck drivers, taxi drivers, or moving van employees all at the same time
Some of the local facilities here have more or less banned nurses from any lifting because they don't want to pay their worker's comp. There are Hoyers in every room, etc.
This is not, unfortunately, an option for us. The fact remains that (at least in certain areas) it's not possible for EMS. No matter how safe you try to be, there will come a time when you either have to go to extreme lengths to minimize lifting (wait an extended time for assistance with a critical patient, etc), or it more or less can't be done (big patient, tight winding staircase, no room for more than a couple people to lift anyway).
Being better at lifting is not more important than being a competent clinician or caring person, but all other things being equal, it IS a relevant and valuable skill that you can bring to the table. I don't think that it's beyond the reach of 99.9% of people, however, if they're willing to put some work in. (My little partner started deadlifting at my request.)
For what it's worth, I think this is one of those things where opinions differ because regions differ. In California I think I used a stairchair once. Out here it's many times a day.