the 100% directionless thread

[Handsome Robb]

Girls want somebody to love them, stay with them and pay attention to them, not go out drinking or offroading with their guy friends and get horrendously pissed every weekend which may include changing plans they had with us.

You're very naive if that's how you think relationships work...nothing is that simple. If I want to spend time with my friends I should be able to do that, a girl tries to take that away and she's cut from the team. Quickly. You have to have balances.

Maybe I just pick complicated girls but that's far from what they've all wanted.

I have plenty of friends that are girls that think or talk about sex just as much if not more than myself or any other guy I know. Being addicted to sex and being unsafe about it is one thing. There's nothing wrong with practicing safe sex, often. Sex is a huge part of a healthy relationship.

 

[Clare]

Look up "hyperemesis gravidarum". It isn't morning sickness, it is a whole different monster. It isn't called "being pregnant" it is called having a legitimate illness while pregnant. I hope you and the other girls on watch figure out it is a serious issue before you run on someone with it and dismiss them as a delicate flower who can't handle being pregnant.

It was given as "acute morning sickness" on the TV news, so I can't say we looked into the matter much further.

Of course none of us would dismiss a legitimate medical complaint.

I'm not even going to involve myself in this debate...

And here I was thinking Paramedics liked a challenge!

In other news, this guy is in a much better mood. Didn't get any of me, didn't want to break the sled on its first day out so I was just cruising around for the most part. Did a couple solid climbs though and even found some knee deep, untouched pow to play in

Rained for a bit but turned to snow pretty quickly. We have a good base to build on for the rest of the year, definitely might have some potential for avalanches depending on the next storm. I don't wanna go back to work tomorrow!

That looks pretty awesome mate, I am not much of a skier (I tried it once) but heck I'll go for a blat on a snowmobile, think you can teach me?

Ok... but no girl's night out or long trips to the mall.

I much prefer girls' night in; those girls' nights out can end rather horrifically; I know I give guys a bad rap for drunken shenanigans and getting horrendously pissed but must say young (<25 ish) girls are worse for consuming supra-good time amounts of alcohol and ending up in bad situations.

The only exception I'll make is if one of the members of the relationship becomes a homemaker. If you want to stay at home all day, you've just got a new job. That doesn't excuse being a slob, but the homemaker is just that.

Come on now, so if I decide to stay at home +/- children it is OK for you not to cook and clean and whatnot, like at all?

You're very naive if that's how you think relationships work...nothing is that simple. If I want to spend time with my friends I should be able to do that, a girl tries to take that away and she's cut from the team. Quickly. You have to have balances.

I don't think I am naive, spending time with your friends is not the problem; spending an excessive amount of time with your friends +/- dumping me to do it is not.

Maybe I just pick complicated girls but that's far from what they've all wanted.

Maybe I am just a purist or idealist at heart or something; who knows?

There's nothing wrong with practicing safe sex, often. Sex is a huge part of a healthy relationship.

I agree, but again as you say, there must be a balance between often and excessive or addiction.

 

[JPINFV]

Come on now, so if I decide to stay at home +/- children it is OK for you not to cook and clean and whatnot, like at all?

So it's OK for me to go to work 40+ hours a week to support you to sit at home and do nothing? Yes, the vast majority of the homemaking work should be done by someone who chooses to become a homemaker, regardless of whether that person is male or female.

Also, note that I did mention that it doesn't excuse being a slob.

 

[Clare]

So it's OK for me to go to work 40+ hours a week to support you to sit at home and do nothing? Yes, the vast majority of the homemaking work should be done by someone who chooses to become a homemaker, regardless of whether that person is male or female.

Also, note that I did mention that it doesn't excuse being a slob.

I didn't say what you describe was OK; it's not, but as you imply, that doesn't mean the person who doesn't stay at home has to do nothing.

So, today has included a patient with a ripped foreskin and a patient with vaginitis; oh dear, can't we learn to use our anatomy correctly and care for it?

Oh and that STEMI I had from a couple days ago has now had stenting, 3 x CABG, an ICD and developed a TIA. The # femur had it nailed and has now also had an NSTEMI.

I think the moral of the story is just don't get sick or injured, even though that would mean I am out of a job!

 

[Achilles]

So should we include whether we are male or female in out details :lol:

 

[Clare]

So should we include whether we are male or female in out details :lol:

I thought we could do that; you can on another forum I belong to, but I guess not on this one.

Now, I will give you three guesses, is "Clare" a girls name or a boys name?

 

[Achilles]

I thought we could do that; you can on another forum I belong to, but I guess not on this one.

Now, I will give you three guesses, is "Clare" a girls name or a boys name?

I was joking, we had a huge debate about that a few months ago.

I'd say Clare is a pastry

 

[DesertMedic66]

I was joking, we had a huge debate about that a few months ago.

I'd say Clare is a pastry

Dang! You beat me to it. I love eclairs.

 

[Aidey]

It was given as "acute morning sickness" on the TV news, so I can't say we looked into the matter much further.

Of course none of us would dismiss a legitimate medical complaint.

And acute morning sickness isn't a legitimate medical complaint?

 

[Clare]

I was joking, we had a huge debate about that a few months ago.

Oh OK I thought maybe you could do is somehow; I don't see a problem with it personally but that's not for me to decide

I'd say Clare is a pastry

That's an eclare, I have my 'e' at the other end, the difference positioning can make!

And you have two guesses left

And acute morning sickness isn't a legitimate medical complaint?

If by "acute morning sickness" they mean "hyperemesis gravidarum" then yes, it is otherwise the consensus we reached was plenty of women have endured feeling crook in the morning while pregnant for centuries and nobody made a news story about any of them.

 

[JPINFV]

So, today has included a patient with a ripped foreskin and a patient with vaginitis; oh dear, can't we learn to use our anatomy correctly and care for it?

I hope that the EMP used absorbable sutures for the foreskin.


Also, did you do a whiff test for the vaginitis?

 

[TheLocalMedic]

The only exception I'll make is if one of the members of the relationship becomes a homemaker. If you want to stay at home all day, you've just got a new job. That doesn't excuse being a slob, but the homemaker is just that.

^Indeed.

 

[usalsfyre]

Girls want somebody to love them, stay with them and pay attention to them, not go out drinking or offroading with their guy friends and get horrendously pissed every weekend which may include changing plans they had with us.

Also, please try to pick up around the house, cook, clean and you know, be somewhat domesticated please.

My soon to be ex-wife blows this theory out of the water.

 

[JPINFV]

From a different thread...

And I'm working a night shift, so don't think ya'all can get away with anything once ffemt goes to bed.

 

[TheLocalMedic]

LOL, my wife does pull that kind of stuff from time to time. Goes in cycles....

 

[Clare]

I hope that the EMP used absorbable sutures for the foreskin.

Also, did you do a whiff test for the vaginitis?

I take it EMP is Emergency Physician. Dno, I'll see what I can find out, but I hope at any rate that the doctor did not use the staples.

My soon to be ex-wife blows this theory out of the water.

I think "ex" is the key phrase there; also disclaimer: results may not be representational of general female population but should be

LOL, my wife does pull that kind of stuff from time to time. Goes in cycles....

Are these cycles perhaps 14-21 days in length at all by some strange quirk of the universe?

That would explain a lot.

 

[DesertMedic66]

Are these cycles perhaps 14-21 days in length at all by some strange quirk of the universe?

That would explain a lot.

They are probably 28-31 days long depending on the month :rofl:

 

[Clare]

They are probably 28-31 days long depending on the month :rofl:

Oh dear, um, it would appear some people have longer erm, cycles then ...

 

[Aidey]

Oh dear, um, it would appear some people have longer erm, cycles then ...

Women aren't all the same? Go figure.

 

[Clare]

Women aren't all the same? Go figure.

Where would the fun be in that?