MedicPrincess
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My relief is having a really hard time right now. He and his wife have split up. She's being rotten about him seeing the kids. He thought he had a place to live, but it won't be ready for 2 weeks so he has taken to crashing at the FD or with friends. He's dealing with it by going out drinking nightly.
This morning at 0330 he came in, got something out of his locker, woke us up in doing so, and then crashed in the FD's training room on the floor. I should add, he has permission from the Chief at the FD to sleep there as long as he is up and out before the comissioners start coming around at 1000.
This morning at 0645 we tried waking him up for shift change at 0700. Nothing. At 0700 we were still trying and finally got him to grunt and stir a little. At 0710 we do radio checks and my truck went in service with the oncoming paramedic and me holding over. At 0715 my relief crashes through the station doors, and from across the room you can smell the alcohol. He mummbles something about being sorry he overslept and he's good. Let him have the radio and keys.
How would your respond???
I have ZERO tolerance for drinking and driving. NONE. Not "I had a really bad night and Im sorry" or "But I only had 2" or "But I stopped drinking a couple hours ago" tolerance. None, zero, no excuse. So I refused to give him the keys and radio. I wasn't mean or rude. I simply told him I am not giving you the keys you smell like you just walked out of a bar. He let loose with a string of swear words which ended with give them to him. I told him no, I'd be happy to hold over and let him sleep some more until he is fit to come in. At which point he walked over grabbed the keys from my hand and headed for the shower.
Now what would be your response???
I called my CPT. Informed him why I signed on as holding over when he had already cleared us to go home, and that my relief smells as though he came straight from a bar. I specifically told him I am not saying he IS drunk, I am telling him you can smell the alcohol across the room. So my CPT connects me to my reliefs CPT who tells me to hold over and he is on his way. He gets there, talks to my relief and his Medic. Then procedes to tell me well he says he stopped drinking at 2300, which means he hasn't had a drink in the last 8 hours, but we're going to watch him closely and see how he does.
So I was supposed to work OT today at double time a half. I was FLOORED. This CPT has an employee that you can smell the alcohol on his breath and he is going to let him drive. I said Your sure you want him to go inservice? He responds with Im the CPT on this shift and you will not question my decison. Okay then I say, I won't be working for you then. Take me off the Jacksonville transfer. What? Why? he is asking. So as I am walking away from him I tell him If he is going to knowingly let one of his EMTs go in service when they have been drinking and do nothing, I will not work for him. I will find my OT elsewhere.
I didn't make it to my car before my CPT was calling me to find out why I was refusing to work for the other one. When I told him, he asked me am I sure it was alcohol...Ummm yea. Okay, he understands why I won't work and he'll take care of it (my CPT is the senior officer, next under the Chief). On the way home he called to say it is being handled and I will need to see him and the Chief on Wednesday.
And then my relief cornered me at my car. Man, this is F'ed up. Im not drunk right now. Man you really screwed me up. No way can you smell it. And I tell him he is 3 feet from me and I can smell it on his breath. He gets closer than that to patients and S.O. and Highway Patrol, doesn't he think they will be able to also?
So now Im the bad guy for telling on him. and I am out my double time and a half for 12 hours. and I have to make a trip to our Admin offices on Wednesday, which I try to avoid like the plague. And just one more day I didn't make any friends.
Whys it suck so bad doing the right thing?
This morning at 0330 he came in, got something out of his locker, woke us up in doing so, and then crashed in the FD's training room on the floor. I should add, he has permission from the Chief at the FD to sleep there as long as he is up and out before the comissioners start coming around at 1000.
This morning at 0645 we tried waking him up for shift change at 0700. Nothing. At 0700 we were still trying and finally got him to grunt and stir a little. At 0710 we do radio checks and my truck went in service with the oncoming paramedic and me holding over. At 0715 my relief crashes through the station doors, and from across the room you can smell the alcohol. He mummbles something about being sorry he overslept and he's good. Let him have the radio and keys.
How would your respond???
I have ZERO tolerance for drinking and driving. NONE. Not "I had a really bad night and Im sorry" or "But I only had 2" or "But I stopped drinking a couple hours ago" tolerance. None, zero, no excuse. So I refused to give him the keys and radio. I wasn't mean or rude. I simply told him I am not giving you the keys you smell like you just walked out of a bar. He let loose with a string of swear words which ended with give them to him. I told him no, I'd be happy to hold over and let him sleep some more until he is fit to come in. At which point he walked over grabbed the keys from my hand and headed for the shower.
Now what would be your response???
I called my CPT. Informed him why I signed on as holding over when he had already cleared us to go home, and that my relief smells as though he came straight from a bar. I specifically told him I am not saying he IS drunk, I am telling him you can smell the alcohol across the room. So my CPT connects me to my reliefs CPT who tells me to hold over and he is on his way. He gets there, talks to my relief and his Medic. Then procedes to tell me well he says he stopped drinking at 2300, which means he hasn't had a drink in the last 8 hours, but we're going to watch him closely and see how he does.
So I was supposed to work OT today at double time a half. I was FLOORED. This CPT has an employee that you can smell the alcohol on his breath and he is going to let him drive. I said Your sure you want him to go inservice? He responds with Im the CPT on this shift and you will not question my decison. Okay then I say, I won't be working for you then. Take me off the Jacksonville transfer. What? Why? he is asking. So as I am walking away from him I tell him If he is going to knowingly let one of his EMTs go in service when they have been drinking and do nothing, I will not work for him. I will find my OT elsewhere.
I didn't make it to my car before my CPT was calling me to find out why I was refusing to work for the other one. When I told him, he asked me am I sure it was alcohol...Ummm yea. Okay, he understands why I won't work and he'll take care of it (my CPT is the senior officer, next under the Chief). On the way home he called to say it is being handled and I will need to see him and the Chief on Wednesday.
And then my relief cornered me at my car. Man, this is F'ed up. Im not drunk right now. Man you really screwed me up. No way can you smell it. And I tell him he is 3 feet from me and I can smell it on his breath. He gets closer than that to patients and S.O. and Highway Patrol, doesn't he think they will be able to also?
So now Im the bad guy for telling on him. and I am out my double time and a half for 12 hours. and I have to make a trip to our Admin offices on Wednesday, which I try to avoid like the plague. And just one more day I didn't make any friends.
Whys it suck so bad doing the right thing?