Some of our patients call 911 at the drop of a hat (oh, I stubbed my toe! Or I have a nosebleed or a headache, or I've been sick 3 days, better call right now at 3am) while others will pretty much flat out refuse to call until they're circling the drain (and even then it's usually family calling us). We had a patient yesterday who despite having pains in the chest for 3 days never called, but when it got bad, and had shortness of breath they decided to go to the hospital....via private auto....didn't even make it to the garage when he fell out. We get on scene, and in the "big sick/little sick" general impression was definitely big sick, 12 lead, medics work on starting a line, we start to load the patient into the gurney and the family requests we take him to the same hospital they were planning on going to.....30 miles away, at least an hour if not 2 in LA traffic. We say no, that's way to far, we wanna take him down the road to the hospital that's only 3 miles away (also happens to be our base hospital that's a STEMI and a Stroke center as well so not just a doc in a box band aid station)Family said ok, if you can't take him, we'll sign him out and take him ourselves. We had to convince them to let us take him to the local hospital for stabilization first (and who then call for an ambulance IFT later on), fortunately they agree to that. An hour later after dropping off another patient I poke my head into his room (well section of curtained off ER) to see how he's doing, turns out he had coded sometime after we dropped him off, they had gotten ROSC and doing post-arrest care, so a good thing he didn't go by private auto and code out while stuck in traffic on the freeway!