I find myself conflicted on this matter.
On one hand, I think, this lady was in fact elderly, the likelihood of a positive outcome was virtually non existent even if immediate CPR was started (for multiple reasons, the nurse would have done poor CPR, the patient probably had multiple co-morbidities, etc.) and if there was ROSC, it likely would have extended her suffering, only to see her removed from life support a short time later.
The main issue I have though is that all of those reasons I stated above had to be qualified with "likely" which means I am guessing, and don't really know what would have happened. In reality, with the way things went down, we know that no CPR was performed, we know the patient was having agonal respirations ("breathing difficulty" indeed!) and we know that the "nurse" used every excuse in the book and flat out refused to even identify another person to assist.
What makes that nurse judge, jury, and executioner in this case? What gives her the right to say, no I will not perform CPR, and I will not attempt to identify anyone who will? I am not even talking about the legal right to state these things, I am talking about the ethical and moral right to do these things.
Furthermore, I agree with previous posters who ask why even bother calling 911? What kind of weak individual punts all of the tough decisions to EMS?
The case does irritate me quite a bit, even though I think in the end, the outcome would be no different had alternate events transpired, and this outcome was likely the one that involved the least amount of patient suffering in the end.
I wasn't going to initially post on this matter, but after hearing the 911 tapes this morning it kind of got me flustered about it.