habibti74
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Maybe this doesn't happen quite as much on the back of an ambulance because you don't have quite as long with your patients, but in the ER I am always asked lots of questions by my patients who may not be as sick as some of the others.
When I'm going to be in a room for awhile, starting an IV, drawing blood, hooking up fluids to a pump, giving meds, hooking my patient to the monitor, etc. I will often - probably at least 25-30% of the time get people who ask me about my religion.
I'm a Muslim girl and I wear a headscarf. They'll say "Can I ask you a personal question?" And I already know what it is before they ask. "Are you Muslim?" And then it's usually "Were you born here?" (yes) "Where are your parents from?" (outside of London) "Where is your husband from?" (I'm single) Some of the older people get excited about it "oooh! (clapping their hands) I've never met one of THOSE before!" Or some of these older guys in their 70s wearing camoflague will end up telling me as they leave (who hadn't asked me any questions) that I wasn't "at all what they were expecting"
They'll come in later and ask for "the Muslim nurse" or something. I guess I have a fanbase now. (Let me add I've gotten several really offensive comments as well but I dont care about those)
I certainly don't wear a hijab just to get asked questions - I wear it all the time. Usually I try to deflect, if they ask questions about me, I'll ask them questions back - I was born here, where did YOU grow up? How long have YOU been married? etc so it doesnt seem like I'm prosthelytizing or something I don't mind questions at all really and I guess I could see this as a good opportunity to show Islam in a positive light if I really wanted - but I'm there functioning as a nurse and it just seems odd to me that someone is there getting blood work, IVs, etc that they would want to discuss ME while they're there!
Do you get personal questions about something about yourself?
When I'm going to be in a room for awhile, starting an IV, drawing blood, hooking up fluids to a pump, giving meds, hooking my patient to the monitor, etc. I will often - probably at least 25-30% of the time get people who ask me about my religion.
I'm a Muslim girl and I wear a headscarf. They'll say "Can I ask you a personal question?" And I already know what it is before they ask. "Are you Muslim?" And then it's usually "Were you born here?" (yes) "Where are your parents from?" (outside of London) "Where is your husband from?" (I'm single) Some of the older people get excited about it "oooh! (clapping their hands) I've never met one of THOSE before!" Or some of these older guys in their 70s wearing camoflague will end up telling me as they leave (who hadn't asked me any questions) that I wasn't "at all what they were expecting"
They'll come in later and ask for "the Muslim nurse" or something. I guess I have a fanbase now. (Let me add I've gotten several really offensive comments as well but I dont care about those)
I certainly don't wear a hijab just to get asked questions - I wear it all the time. Usually I try to deflect, if they ask questions about me, I'll ask them questions back - I was born here, where did YOU grow up? How long have YOU been married? etc so it doesnt seem like I'm prosthelytizing or something I don't mind questions at all really and I guess I could see this as a good opportunity to show Islam in a positive light if I really wanted - but I'm there functioning as a nurse and it just seems odd to me that someone is there getting blood work, IVs, etc that they would want to discuss ME while they're there!
Do you get personal questions about something about yourself?