. Yes, I "could" have gone slower, but for the umpteenth time, that's not what happened. Quit with the "what ifs" because they are pointless and old now.
Exactly. Look at your own contribution to this MVC, learn from it and don't repeat the same mistake.
Driving a car and an ambulance requires the maturity and the ability to take responsibility for one's own actions. If one fails to see where they could have avoided their mistakes or any situation with undesirable consequences, one will continue to make the same mistakes over and over. It could be much more serious than a bumper tap next time.