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Males in their 30s usually fall into the role of "the provider."
As they have children, the female is usually the primary caregiver for them and as such has her affection needs filled largely by them.
As a compensatory mechanism for the decrease in being the object of affection, the males usually resort to insulative compensatory mechanisms like seeing their value as their position in their profession or society.
In most societies, the male is raised in a military type of environment. The lack of personal connection causes insulation usually in a pseudosoldier type mentality.
Which face it, if your personal value is a reflection of your social or professional postion, who would want to see themselves as the private over the General?
Hey, good post.
Sociology is awesome.