Guilty with an explanation
I get tweaked by lack of respect and usafmedic45 hit my hot button.
I have a brother, ten years older than me who is developmentally disabled and was called "stupid" throughout his life. I understand the effects of such labels.
There's no one on this site who deserves to be called that name, and when I stated this and there was rallying to the defense of usaf, well, I lost it!
I probably should have just given an infraction but I chose to go public because I couldn't go with condoning such negative word usage by anyone, nor the defense of it so yes, I became the very butthole I was ranting against!
Since you, Katgirl, rallied to usaf's defense based on him sleeping beside you and others descibed themselves as Groupies I couldn't find the justification for things like that to condone bad behavior so I lashed out.
usafmedic45 I have no problem whatsoever distinguishing your contributions from your delivery. Personally, I hope I made it clear that I'm available to both you and Kat. There is absolutely no change in that or my respect for your contributions. I will say this, however: I hope you can see the absurdity of this statement:
This is an educational forum and thus if we are unable to educate and through the use of verbal bluntness if necessary, then this is nothing other than a big ol' circle jerk just like EMTCity.
Verbal bluntness might be a tool, but show me the teacher who recieves respect that offers none to his students. My point is respect.
Regarding the Forum, however, the Be Polite Rule is something you keep stomping on and somehow get supported in. Whereas others lapse into disrespect of that rule sometimes, I experience you as putting it to the test time and time again.
Why would you choose to limit your effectiveness as a teacher? You're good, don't compromise it.
This was my way of letting everyone know how I feel about it. Maybe as a CL I'm not supposed to do this, we'll see, but, as you all know, I don't hide my humanness or inconsistencies.
My special apology to katgirl2003 with no excuses. That was a bonehead thing to do on my part.
From this point on regarding this subject, I'm available for PMs and will refrain from public chastizements in the future.
My apologies to all.