Nothing wrong with a little bit of pain punishment. It's a simple concept- you touch the stove, you get burned, you don't touch the stove again. The problem is that some nutcase parents out there just don't know when to put the brakes on it. They're obviously the minority, but in order to effectively address the issue, some feel that we need to target everyone- especially since these abusive spastics don't exactly walk around making it known to everyone and their headshrinker what it is they're doing. It's too bad some people just have no self-control.