One of those shifts that make you go "ARGH!"

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I just need to rant. Yesterday was a shift from heck, not overly streneous just stressful.

First call of the day, this lady's leg is twisted and contorted from a femur fx, and possibly an ankle fx s/p fall. Family said her leg had been like that for days before the nursing home would send her out. Couldn't locate distal pulses, leg was stone cold, this woman had various bruises and skin tears in various stages of healing. She was quite a sad sight, but just calmly sat there, after asking her if she was in pain after we moved her, she smiled and said "A lady never complains." She was sweet, very confused but very sweet.

Next call was discharge to nursing home. We get there, and had to spend an hour on scene waiting for the patient's family because he didn't want to leave without them. Patient had a stage four sacral wound treated by myocutaneous flaps. This patient HAD to have an airmattress and HAD to lay flat. Even had an order for it. Well in that hour that we were waiting, the nurse didn't care to tell us they didn't have the correct mattress at the nursing home for the patient. My mistake for assuming they wouldn't discharge him until the nursing home could accept him with the proper equipment. We loaded him up after tracking down two nurses to four point him and make the sheet pull as comfortable and easy as possible. And we do really well. Load him into the stretcher. Family is following. Get to nursing home and are met at the room saying they don't have the mattress and wont accept him because they don't have the proper equipment. They were really sweet and said they'd told the nurse that several times while she was calling report.

So. They wont accept the patient. OK, well, called dispatch. They already had cleaned his room when we left and we couldn't bring him back there, so we're heading to the ER. We have nothing else to do with this patient. Take him to the ER, outside in the truck we are met by a nurse who said they wont take the patient either (dispatch had called them.) met outside. So we sit there for half an hour on and off the phone to figure out what to do. The patient, who is on the worst possible mattress, goes from a 5/10 pain to a "15/10 pain" is in TEARS. A big burly "former gangster" (Self described) is in TEARS begging for us to just take him home. His family was in tears seeing him like that. Which of course, we can't. We were so irritated. Finally told to head back to the nursing home and put him on a regular mattress.

get there. Go to seek out nurses or CNAs to help. They're P/O'd beyond belief that they have to help, refuse to help until they've gone through all of the paperwork etcetc.. mean while our patient is outrageously in pain. We finally get him off and the first thing the cna does despite being told by both me and the patient "No, he's not allowed to sit up" sits him up til the nurse comes in and says he can't sit up. The entire call took four hours. We were starving by the time we were done but did not have a chance to stop ALL night.

Next patient is a 102 year old miserable man who'se grandson is a former nurse. Patient is confused and sweet. Grandson does not believe in hospice care, and talks to us like we're morons. "Do you know what renal means? It means kidney.. do you know what necrotic means?" and goes on to tell me that in 30 years we will have nano technology and no one will ever get sick or die and we will all never age past 30. He talked down to us... and he was incorrect with nearly everything he said. I was angry to be talked down to like a child.. my partner has a bachelor's in biology, I am no moron either... Jesus!

Then next couple of patients were all mellow (although one poor man was convinced he was dying due to a little blood in his urine), but I got off two and a half hours late. Also at a drop off, my partner forgot to lock her door on her way out, her GPS and my scope was jacked. Thank god I keep my wallet with me! So I'm scopeless and stuck using the crappy provided ones until I can replace.

I'm just incredibly frustrated, I think sometimes people forget that the patients they are dealing with are actual PEOPLE and not slabs of meat on the stretcher. They feel pain, they get distressed.... And we need to have sensitivity for these people, be their advocate, not ignore them or treat them as an inconvience and send them out of the hospital without proper equipment because you want one less patient to deal with that night.

Nurses were not on my happy list last night.
 
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Sends a dozen oven-warm chocolate chip cookies and a quart of ice cold milk to the Sash-meister; with wishes that tomorrow is a better day... =)
 
I feel thankful to live in an area with small, well-maintained nursing homes. An acquaintance of mine once worked IFT in a larger city for a week, called the Elder Abuse hotline at least twice a day, and quit the company after begging in vain to work an alternate route (which ran to a very well-maintained nursing home run by the Catholic Church).

I'm sorry you had to see all that tough stuff. Unfortunately Elder Abuse is very common and many nurses who work in nursing homes don't give a rip about their patients. Hearing stories of neglect is what really made me become a patient advocate.
 
Aloha, Sasha!

The one thing that remained consistent throughout was that you and your partner gave a darn. It's a nightmare to try to maintain an open heart when everyone else around you insists on being cold to downright abusive. Abuse is a self-perpetuating thing and is does suck others in to it by de-humanizing the afflicted people.

Care at nursing homes was miserable when I was in the field (70's 80's) and with my generation, the Baby Boomers, it's gonna be a lot worse. I apologize that you get stuck with it all, but when it's my time to be carted around like a slab of flesh, I hope you're on duty.

And thanks for showing it's okay to experience feelings and still be able to do the work and letting that be visible here.
 
Hey girlfriend! Sorry you had such a rough shift. (And sorry about the other night. My phone dropped the call and then it was acting weird after that.) I can feel for you. I have had some pretty crappy ones lately myself.
 
Gosh girl - I hope one of your 911 applications works out. As an alternative, perhaps you can do ITF at another route, or company or city or anything..
You can see where this is going right? The level of frustration and anger that you are carrying (all of it justified btw) is going to burn you out. I would hate to see that happen. Unless you can see yourself making a big difference in the lives of your patients, you need to get out.

Take care.
 
hey.....sorry you had a bad shift. just keep your head up and remember why you do this(for the money!!! lol) i can't say how many times i've been disappointed in someone who has so much potential because they don't care for their patients like they should. you are a great medic and just remember not every shift is bad.
 
I feel for you! Just have to smile and nod... And eat something high in carbs... I prefer a deep fried carbo-loaded treat.
 
Next call was discharge to nursing home. We get there, and had to spend an hour on scene waiting for the patient's family because he didn't want to leave without them. Patient had a stage four sacral wound treated by myocutaneous flaps. This patient HAD to have an airmattress and HAD to lay flat. Even had an order for it. Well in that hour that we were waiting, the nurse didn't care to tell us they didn't have the correct mattress at the nursing home for the patient. My mistake for assuming they wouldn't discharge him until the nursing home could accept him with the proper equipment. We loaded him up after tracking down two nurses to four point him and make the sheet pull as comfortable and easy as possible. And we do really well. Load him into the stretcher. Family is following. Get to nursing home and are met at the room saying they don't have the mattress and wont accept him because they don't have the proper equipment. They were really sweet and said they'd told the nurse that several times while she was calling report.

So. They wont accept the patient. OK, well, called dispatch. They already had cleaned his room when we left and we couldn't bring him back there, so we're heading to the ER. We have nothing else to do with this patient. Take him to the ER, outside in the truck we are met by a nurse who said they wont take the patient either (dispatch had called them.) met outside. So we sit there for half an hour on and off the phone to figure out what to do. The patient, who is on the worst possible mattress, goes from a 5/10 pain to a "15/10 pain" is in TEARS. A big burly "former gangster" (Self described) is in TEARS begging for us to just take him home. His family was in tears seeing him like that. Which of course, we can't. We were so irritated. Finally told to head back to the nursing home and put him on a regular mattress.

With that, I would say, the PT is in pain and would like to be helped, and start a new run from your location to the ER, and once you're inside the hospital has to take and assess the PT. I'm sure i think.
 
With that, I would say, the PT is in pain and would like to be helped, and start a new run from your location to the ER, and once you're inside the hospital has to take and assess the PT. I'm sure i think.

We took him to the ER, they would not accept him. There was no valid chief complaint. He was in pain at the start of the transport. It was not new onset pain. There was nothing they could have done for him there, as they did not have an air mattress in the ER and would not get one from the floor. We did the very best for our patient that we possibly could and exhausted all outlets. We even tried to contact his doctor to get an order for transport home because he had an air mattress at home but were unable to contact him. In the end putting him on the ER mattress would have been no different than putting him on the nursing home mattress aside from the fact he would be charged for yet another transfer from the ER to the nursing home and possibly delay getting on the correct mattress.

I know it sounds like I hate my job, but I think it's just a little stress. I was basically thrown to the wolves when I got my paramedic license and have been stressed out while trying to get comfortable. I'm sure it will pass. There are just some days that make dissapoint me, such as yesterday, when patients are so maltreated by those who claim to be patient advocates. I'm sure I would run into that no matter what company I worked for.
 
Suck it up, during the interview you said you would do anything or something to that effect, and guess what this is "anything", besides you have the greatest job on earth, great pay, bennies etc, etc.
 
Suck it up, during the interview you said you would do anything or something to that effect, and guess what this is "anything", besides you have the greatest job on earth, great pay, bennies etc, etc.

Excuse me??? no where in my interview or orientation did I say I would do anything... It was simply a rant to blow off steam.
 
Hope this isn't too unpleasant

Suck it up

From the Urban Dictionary:
To cope with something unpleasant without complaining--usually because you have no choice.

Supposed to be pilot slang. If you vomit into your mask, you'd better suck it up. Otherwise, you can inhale it and die.


The only people in the world that really understand what it's like to do this work and suffer all its insults are us.

"Suck it up" feels disrespectful to me. That's the kind of stuff people say at Boot Camp, where the goal is to snuff out your humanity to create a machine.

With the little amount of positive feedback we get from the outside world, the least we can do here is look for opportunities to support each other in taking care of ourselves rather than throwing out comments designed to shut down the process.
 
Sasha: just remember all of the good runs, and shifts: and people that thank you for your job.
then be happy that the bad stuff tends to happen all on one shift so that it doesn't ruin all of your shifts.
also remember that if you get frustrated and finally leave and go somewhere else, it may not be better.

I did that, looked for a job closer to all my family; because I finally got too frustrated where I was working, even though I loved EMS and still do.

got a job with great pay and great benefits. problem is: 29 patients in 16 months. not so fun. but I am within 90 miles of all my family but one neice instead of 1600 miles.
 
I'm down here until tomorrow night.
And you know my cell is pretty much always on.

Besides, I got news for you!
 
I'm down here until tomorrow night.
And you know my cell is pretty much always on.

Besides, I got news for you!

You didn't pass the test, because you're a lazy bones. Had you have hit me up earlier, we could've met up but I have to be to work at 7am tomorrow and to do that I have to be up at five.
 
You didn't pass the test, because you're a lazy bones. Had you have hit me up earlier, we could've met up but I have to be to work at 7am tomorrow and to do that I have to be up at five.

Uh huh!
I was a little wound up after I got out, I was all nervous about taking the test.
I got a 5 in 24 chance. I like them odds....B)
 
Suck it up, during the interview you said you would do anything or something to that effect, and guess what this is "anything", besides you have the greatest job on earth, great pay, bennies etc, etc.

Reason #48 why firefighters should stay away from EMS.
 
air mattress patient

Quick question. Was the patient on a disposable air mattress at the hospital?

Next patient is a 102 year old miserable man who'se grandson is a former nurse. Patient is confused and sweet. Grandson does not believe in hospice care, and talks to us like we're morons. "Do you know what renal means? It means kidney.. do you know what necrotic means?" and goes on to tell me that in 30 years we will have nano technology and no one will ever get sick or die and we will all never age past 30. He talked down to us... and he was incorrect with nearly everything he said. I was angry to be talked down to like a child.. my partner has a bachelor's in biology, I am no moron either... Jesus!

Possible picture of the son in question? I had a situation similar to that and it sucked big time. Ended up going back and forth a few times before we could get everything figured out. Apparently the hospice company for my patient was supposed to supply some sort of oxygen concentrator that could go up to 15 L/m. Not surprisingly, they were a no show at the SNF.
 
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