Thanks for the info
As far as the medics acting under the medical director, could you tell me a little more in detail how that works for them, how different it is in certain places and such?
I want to gather more on this, seems theres more to it than I knew at first but I'd like to know for my knowledge in case im unsure of a medic, so as to be appropriate and know what is right and what is BS a little better
Sure...well, I would start with reminding you that this is something you should have learned in EMT school and didn't, or it is something you already learned, but have since forgotten. (We only typically retain about 10% of what we initially learned in school, unless we continue to relearn the material.)
So, I would recommend dusting off that EMT book from school and re-reading the legal section.
In EMS, every state has different laws. So, your state is different than mine, and you need to contact your state EMS board or state certifying/licensing agency or contact an attorney or legal representative for very specific legal advice relating to questions about: you, your service, your medical director and your state.
That being said: typically each state sets forth laws regarding certifications or licenses, and those laws govern training and skills. For example: maybe in one state, an EMT can intubate a patient, and in another state an EMT cannot. Or, maybe in one state an EMT can start an IV, and in another state an EMT cannot. The state says what types of skills an EMT can perform, and then sets training for those skills. The NREMT is just a standardized test of generic information that is similar between all states. It is different than state training, state certification, and the state's guidelines as to what duties an EMT can perform.
An EMT works under a medical director, who is a Doctor. The doctor can limit the skills that the state allows you to perform: for example, if your state allowed EMTs to give IVs, your medical director could say, "Yeah, but I don't feel comfortable with EMTs giving IVs, so my EMTs won't be doing that." The doctor could also give guidelines as to when and how to perform the skill. For example, the doctor could tell you to splint any injury you think might be broken, or the doctor could tell you to only splint an injury you have confirmed is broken. The medical director can tell an EMT not to do something that the state allows, or they can tell the EMT when or when not to perform the skill that the state allows, but they cannot tell the EMT to perform a new skill that the state does not allow. For example, they couldn't tell you to perform open heart surgery on a person who just had an MI. The medical director "tells" the EMT how and when to perform the skill by writing down the how's and when's in the form of protocols, also known as offline medical direction. You could contact a doctor at a hospital when you are enroute with a patient. That Doctor would then temporarily give you "medical direction". This is known as online medical direction. The doctor could tell you to perform a certain skill a certain way, but it cannot be contrary to the protocols that you already have from your medical director, and it cannot exceed what the state allows you to do.
In most states, you cannot perform these EMT skills on your own, though, there are exceptions. Every single state has its own rules. For example, in my state, Ohio, I can perform the skills under a medical director, but I cannot perform them on my own...unless...I happened to be walking down the street and helped someone during an emergency...then I would be covered under my state's "Good Samaritan laws". But, if I arrived with some Benadryl that I kept in a medical kit in my trunk to help others in an emergency, well, then I'd be practicing medicine without a license, because I intended to help others but had no medical direction. But, if I used benadryl on someone else from a medical kit that I kept in my trunk that was only in my trunk because I kept it there for personal emergencies, well, that would be perfectly fine, according to my state's laws. The law has less to do with how you do something, but rather why and when you do it.
So, in your scenario, you and the person from the other service most likely have two different medical directors. Your medical director might say to c-spine everyone. Your state's EMT training might teach something like, "C-Spine everyone unless your protocol says otherwise." The other person's medical director might have written a protocol on when not to C-Spine, or how to clear C-Spine. For example, my service has protocols on how to clear C-Spine, but of the two other nearby services, one other also does, and one does not (to my knowledge).
If you transferred the patient to the paramedic, now, his medical director's protocols are in play. The paramedic is operating under the direction of their medical director, under that doctor's license, performing the skills that medical director wants done.
Trying to be polite, and trying to help you learn, I would agree that this is a case of you don't know how much you really don't know. Now, this is not a bad thing. We have all been woefully unaware of things before. Take this as a learning opportunity. Pull your EMT book back out and re-read the legal section, specifically about how medical directors and protocols work. Then, you, as everyone in EMS needs to do, need to get out your protocols and learn them word for word.
We are in a business where constant learning is the order of the day for all of us. I'm re-reading sections of other books on other topics myself. Don't get discouraged. Educate yourself.