after watching this unfold over the last week or so, i have to say i'm baffled. I'm baffled that this is still being argued. Basically, one new rule is in place: treat people with respect. It seems the people that are in uproar about this are the people that know they do not treat people with respect on a daily basis. I don't know if you find some sort of joy in insulting people, or just an old habit, but all that needs to change is for people to be nice, have a little compassion, have a little understanding. No, i'm not saying we can't criticize people, or that we can't share our opinions. But you and I both know that there is a mean way to do it and a nicer way to do it. You know what i'm talking about, just remove that one sarcastic word, that one instigator, whatever it may be, and your reply will be much more pleasant.
also, remember that this isn't a democracy. there are leaders, they make rules. It seems the mods tried to be nice by giving people a chance to give their feedback on it, which is more than can be said for most forums. Most would simply make the rule, enforce the rule, ban the people, without blinking an eye. maybe they made a couple mistakes, possibly misinterpreting the rule or being too harsh on it, i don't know, its too early to tell. maybe an overreaction from both sides sparked this, but in the end, all that matters is that people are a little nicer to each other.
personally, i haven't seen these radical changes people have been talking about. i still log on everyday, read over the posts, and make a post or two. this rule hasn't effected me, and they only thing i've noticed is that some of the not-as-nice people have posted a little less. i haven't seen the dramatic decrease in medical related posts, although i haven't been here that long, maybe there were oodles and oodles before i joined. basically all i'm trying to say is lighten up, everyone. you're acting like the world is going to end because of a rule that says 'play nice'
