AFib+WPW or AFlutter+WPW is dangerous because these are not dependent upon the AV Node for maintenance. They are automatic and thus AV nodal blocking agents are dangerous because they do not stop the tachycardia.
Just a little additional info. I'd always thought basically what everyone else said, but a cardiologist speaking at a conference a few months ago claimed that the "slowing the AV node" idea doesn't make a lot of sense, for the reason you state here - the fast/dangerous WPW Afib is anterograde through the accessory pathway and can already go as fast as it wants. He claimed the real issue was a sympathetic response to the hypotensive effects of ccb's/amio/whatever.
Intuitively that made sense to me, and apparently it's even borne out in the older source literature (or at least what uptodate tells me is the source literature), even though most summaries of the older literature omit this tidbit....e.g. quote from here:
circ.ahajournals.org/content/65/2/348.full.pdf
Acceleration of the ventricular response during atrial fibrillation in the Wolff-Parkinson-White syndrome after verapamil.
Gulamhusein et al Circulation. 1982;65(2):348
"There are several explanations for the acceleration
of ventricular response during atrial fibrillation after
verapamil. First, verapamil could favor conduction
over the accessory pathway by slowing conduction
over the atrioventricular node and decreasing concealed,
retrograde conduction into the accessory
pathway by normally conducted beats.26 This was
probably the case in patients with both normally conducted
and preexcited beats during atrial fibrillation who demonstrated slowing of the mean ventricular
response and prolongation of the shortest RR interval
between normally conducted beats after verapamil.
However, it is unlikely that slowing of atrioventricular
conduction is an important factor in patients who
have a rapid ventricular response during atrial fibrillation
with most complexes conducted over the
accessory pathway. Second, verapamil may shorten the refractory
period of the accessory pathway directly. This
hypothesis is less likely, as accessory pathways are
generally composed histologically of myocardial
cells33'"4 and behave electrophysiologically like
myocardium."3 Verapamil has not been shown to have
any direct effect on the electrophysiologic properties
of myocardial tissue.7 8 16t 29 36
Finally, verapamil may shorten the refractory
period of the accessory pathway as a result of a reflex increase in adrenergic tone brought about by its
peripheral vasodilating effect.6 7 This hypothesis is
supported by the uniform observation of a decrease in
systolic blood pressure (5-10 mm Hg) after verapamil
in our patients. Indeed, the change in the occurrence
of nonsustained to sustained atrial fibrillation after
verapamil in four of our patients could be a result of
increased sympathetic tone.
anyways, maybe not a clinically critical distinction, but interesting nonentheless