Jambi
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I was a medic at 18, back when dinosaurs roamed the earth. Now I am saddled with a very young partner and I realize the folly of youth.
No wonder I used to get complaints. People skills grow with age and wisdom, but they are needed from the beginning.
I wasn't a medic at that age, but I can say that I sure as hell wasn't really ready to be one and be the kind of person to make it happen is a good way.
I've mellowed out at 33 ;-)
To the OP, and this is from experience, but if someone accuses you of acting like a kid...you may very well be acting like a kid. It's a hard pill to swallow, and the hubris of youth makes it difficult to perceive it because we think we have it handled at that age.
Also, there are lots of young medics that do an amazing job, but regardless of how well they do, they will always be judged on their appearance. It sucks, but keep at it.
On a slightly related note, I work with A lOT of different cultures at my full time gig, and some of them place little or no value on the words and opinions of women. It sucks, but I've stood there and watched women partners tell one of these (not always men) patients something and get completely ignored. I then say the same thing verbatim with results...sigh. It makes me want to bash my head against the wall.