Hey all,
I have an interesting situation I'm trying to resolve.
I'm 35 years old and am currently enrolled in an EMT course which will finish at the end of June. I plan on taking the NREMT exam as soon as possible after that. Over the past year, I've really been itching to join the Army National Guard here in TN. I've always had an affinity for the armed forces and would like the chance to serve before I get too old. I've already talked to several people who are full time with the Guard, and I had a recruiter come out to my house last Friday to look at the different options for service as well as the benefits.
Now for the difficult part.....
My wife and I are in the middle of the process for adopting a baby girl from China. We've had this planned since before we were married (almost 10 years ago) and we're finally seeing it come to fruition. The thing is, we have to be ready to go to China with about a 4-6 week notice any time next Fall (2010) and into that winter. There's no asking for a delay and both parents are required to travel to China for a 2-week period, and there's no way to nail down an exact date......you go when China says you go. This adoption is priority 1 for our lives, so it's not negotiable.
If I join the Guard now, I can defer shipment to basic for up to 1 year while beginning weekend drills right away. I would want to ship out in August or early September in order to allow for enough time for any delays (long reception, gaps between basic and medic school, etc) so that I can be out of AIT in time for the trip to China. The problem comes when the possibility of deployment comes into play. I can't be deployed when the adoption call comes as I've been told I would be denied leave and I also may not be allowed to travel to a Communist country anyway. I don't have anything against deployment. It would be foolish of me to join and never expect to go anywhere, especially in these times. I just can't deploy until after this adoption is complete and I have my daughter home.
So, I have a couple of options that my neighbor has been kicking around with me. First, there is a medic unit in my town that is somehow considered a "non-deployable" unit. I've no idea how that works, but he and the medics there agree that they don't deploy. There are no slots open in that unit though, so I'm basically sitting here waiting on them to tell me a slot has opened up. Second, they do have an admin position open at that post which would allow me to be home for the adoption, then I could go to medic school later. With that option, I may actually forego Army medic school, go to paramedic school on the G.I. bill, then on to nursing school and then look to change jobs within the Guard that way. I was hoping to stick with a medic-related job in the Guard, but pushing paperwork is nothing new to me so it's not so bad.
I'm really just not sure. So much has to fall into place perfectly to allow for our adoption to take place and I refuse to put myself into a position that might jeopardize that. Maybe it's just not possible for me to go in at this time....or maybe I haven't searched out all options yet.
Any thoughts, ideas, or knowledge you guys can pass on?
I have an interesting situation I'm trying to resolve.
I'm 35 years old and am currently enrolled in an EMT course which will finish at the end of June. I plan on taking the NREMT exam as soon as possible after that. Over the past year, I've really been itching to join the Army National Guard here in TN. I've always had an affinity for the armed forces and would like the chance to serve before I get too old. I've already talked to several people who are full time with the Guard, and I had a recruiter come out to my house last Friday to look at the different options for service as well as the benefits.
Now for the difficult part.....
My wife and I are in the middle of the process for adopting a baby girl from China. We've had this planned since before we were married (almost 10 years ago) and we're finally seeing it come to fruition. The thing is, we have to be ready to go to China with about a 4-6 week notice any time next Fall (2010) and into that winter. There's no asking for a delay and both parents are required to travel to China for a 2-week period, and there's no way to nail down an exact date......you go when China says you go. This adoption is priority 1 for our lives, so it's not negotiable.
If I join the Guard now, I can defer shipment to basic for up to 1 year while beginning weekend drills right away. I would want to ship out in August or early September in order to allow for enough time for any delays (long reception, gaps between basic and medic school, etc) so that I can be out of AIT in time for the trip to China. The problem comes when the possibility of deployment comes into play. I can't be deployed when the adoption call comes as I've been told I would be denied leave and I also may not be allowed to travel to a Communist country anyway. I don't have anything against deployment. It would be foolish of me to join and never expect to go anywhere, especially in these times. I just can't deploy until after this adoption is complete and I have my daughter home.
So, I have a couple of options that my neighbor has been kicking around with me. First, there is a medic unit in my town that is somehow considered a "non-deployable" unit. I've no idea how that works, but he and the medics there agree that they don't deploy. There are no slots open in that unit though, so I'm basically sitting here waiting on them to tell me a slot has opened up. Second, they do have an admin position open at that post which would allow me to be home for the adoption, then I could go to medic school later. With that option, I may actually forego Army medic school, go to paramedic school on the G.I. bill, then on to nursing school and then look to change jobs within the Guard that way. I was hoping to stick with a medic-related job in the Guard, but pushing paperwork is nothing new to me so it's not so bad.
I'm really just not sure. So much has to fall into place perfectly to allow for our adoption to take place and I refuse to put myself into a position that might jeopardize that. Maybe it's just not possible for me to go in at this time....or maybe I haven't searched out all options yet.
Any thoughts, ideas, or knowledge you guys can pass on?