I think you're missing the point here... There was no "all or nothing". I wanted to speak to the POA, not withhold treatment.
Here's the situation:
The patient was in the dementia unit. She was not oriented in any sphere.
She had a history of serious GI bleeds, and was transported by me, two weeks prior.
The family/POA was adamantly against any imaging studies or invasive procedures.
The family/POA was adamantly against transport to any facility other than the community hospital, albeit a level III, that had no PCI capabilities.
Did I think the PT was going to die in my care? No. Did I think taking the time to contact the family and tell the what was going on was worth the time? Yes. I would have loved to prevent additional IFT, and let the family know why I wanted to go to a different hospital.
At any rate, she went to the community hospital. I'm sure she was medically managed and is either still an inpatient or has been discharged back to the dementia unit. I haven't followed up.