Thank you
First of all, good catch on the symptoms. You correctly assumed that it could be a possible stroke, considering the patient's age and symptoms. I can tell you are excited about this new career path, and I encourage you to continue learning.
That said, you have no right to usurp this woman's autonomy. If she doesn't want an ambulance, she doesn't have to have one. It should be her decision though, if she is alert and oriented. Was she confused, altered, or in any other way obtunded? It doesn't sound like it, as she basically told you that she has seen a physician about the problem, and the physician decided that even in the presence of facial drooping that it would resolve in a couple of weeks.
Overall, I applaud that you were excited and willing to help this person. That's a good thing, and don't stop. You have to let people have their rights and make their own decisions though. I promise you that you will have patients that will want to do things that you don't think are right. You have to let them, within reason, if they are competent to make an informed decision.
She did seem extremely confused, i've been in her restaurant everyday for about a year. I've never seen her in this confused condition before, I was excited but quick to act without all the information. I did learn that through all of it.
She mumbled when she spoke and when I asked her name (After I called the ambulance) she was very slow to respond to me, (About 10 seconds)
Aside from the criticism that people seem to have a problem with a untrained citizen calling 911 and not knowing really what to do, Everything in this thread has been extremely helpful to me I am grateful for all of it.
I'll defend my reason for going outside to call however. We all have intuition that we use inside the scope of our practice. Mine kicked in, it told me that if I tell this women i'm calling 911 in front of her she will not be okay with it because she's alone in her business and more concerned about her business than her health.
Granted it's her right, and many can throw her blows at me for that. I felt it was the right thing to do.
Brings me even more mind boggling is that in 5 days of her business being open, no one had seemed to care enough to make sure the person is well, because of her face drooping and what seemed to be a confused mental state
Thank you to everyone who has contributed to "Alan's first time" I have learned mountains from just this situation and this post and I am archiving it for further reading
The hard part of this post:
I'd hope this forum is a place to learn instead of being a place where I can go to feel like crap for trying to help someone. If it's not then I have come to the wrong place to learn.
I get mad when I help people with computers too people, some people don't know how to copy and paste and I sit down and help them.
Please, just be mindful when you have a person filled with compassion for helping people, that you don't shove them in the sand as someone did to you when you were little.