Ok, I figured I'd comment on this after lurking through thread and seeing a lot of the responses.
Just a little background on me since I'm a new poster, I work for a very large MICU project in the "southern" region of NJ and have been a paramedic for 6 years. I have my ears stretched and I also have a lot of tattoos, which get covered up with some form of long sleeves year round.
While I understand the general opinion on these and pretty much agree with the general consensus that these may be looked down by potential employers, patients, families, hospital staff, and the ilk, I felt as if I should give my take on this.
I've had my ears pierced and stretched since I first started a career in EMS 8 years ago. I had removed them during my field internship time as a paramedic student and subsequently many years later decided to "re-stretch." I've never had them stretched to a ridiculous size where I could fit my fist through, but they aren't exactly small. I'd like to think at least they're mildly inconspicuous, although I'm sure that's not the case.
The first time I had taken them out, they closed rather quickly to a point where only regular jewelry could be worn if that's how I wanted to deal with it. When I first made the decision to restretch my ears, I made mention of it to my supervisors as well as looking at our HR manual to make sure there wasn't going to be an issue. If it was anything that was going to negatively impact my employment, I wouldn't have done it. Clear and simple. If I ever do decide that I'm not into them anymore, they can come out and will close up to a relatively normal size, which is pretty convenient.
If I was to interview for another company, I would take them out, no problem and if offered a job and they didn't want them back in, they would stay out.
With all of that being said, I have yet to encounter a professional problem with them in. I haven't had any negative reactions from patients, families, hospital staff, etc, but I have occasionally gotten the inquisitive question and sometimes they've been an effective icebreaker. If I ever felt like they were negatively impacting my career, they would also come out. I've worked too hard and too long for one issue of vanity to hold me back.
The beauty of these, as opposed to tattoos, is that they are in no way permanent. As far as what VentMedic posted about the health risks, I agree, there are risks, but I feel a lot of the problems he spoke of are easily preventable if you're smart and know how to take care of wounds.
So basically my standing is they could stay in or come out and it wouldn't really bother me either way, but for now, they're staying in.
Sorry for the long winded reply.