My posts always seem so long....
If I may weigh in....
h34r:
There has been some research done here about how people consider paramedics, and why they call 000 (911). Also I have noticed these things myself in videos and through limited experience.
1. Parents/loved ones, should be connected with the process. Sending them into the other room (unless they are getting in the way) is not on. Separating them from their child in any way (such as driving off to hospital while show coding) appears to lead to profound feelings of helplessness and disconnects them with the dying process. They feel that everything possible was done if they actually see it being done. The importance of not separating a child and their parents is so much so that we are instructed to organise with police and coroner, to, if possible, transport parent holding baby to specific ED's where they gradually separate the two, and have counseling and general support at hand for the parents. Effectively,
they are the patient, not the child.
2. If they are present during the resuscitation, the fact that their kid is dying is introduced slowly. There is no false hope. Starting CPR/ transporting only lends to a false sense of security, if it's medically unnecessary. People really do often feel that everything will be okay once the paramedics arrive, this is magnified by attempts at CPR, and further magnified by transportation (we forget how little the public knows about whats going on). It's a big shock if they leave the room when "their kid is sick" and help arrives and everything is ganna be alright, and they come back and their kid is dead and an even bigger shock if you transport and they get to the hospital expecting things to be alright and their kid/loved one is dead. It's questionable whether anything can really make the death of ones child
better but introducing the idea of death before the pronouncement appears to be marginally better for their long term psychological health.
One of the conclusions of one of my lecturers PhDs was that people call 000, not necessarily when they feel there is a medical emergency that requires medical attention, but when they lose the ability to cope with the situation. As such its silly to approach this from a purely medical point of view and just say, "dead baby? PALS..end off story". Look into some of the reasons why the parents can't cope with the situation.
Their thinking is "baby isn't breathing, looks really sick, don't know what to do, call EMS". DEFINITELY NOT- "Baby isn't breathing, no pulse, I can do CPR, but my baby is essentially dead, need EMS for definitive airway control and ALS drugs but probability of good outcome still abysmal". It's significant because the difference between "looks really sick" and "actually dead" are quite different, and you have to facilitate the difficult transition in their minds. If that requires some sort of procedure or action that is not strictly medically necessary (but doesn't put anyone else in danger and doesn't give false hope) like continuing CPR for a little longer than is maybe medically necessary to give your partner a chance to tell the parents that the outcome is unlikely to be good and start that whole process, then that appears to be a good idea. However, actually attempting a full resuscitation algorithm on a kid in asystole, who's cold, pulseless, has lividity and rigor, and was last seen alive 8 hours ago is definitely counts as show coding.
EXAMPLE: I've know medics to work ped arrests that you could say were hopeless. The justification there is that the signs of death were present in part but they didn't want to make the decision not to start
given the possibility of making an incorrect assessment due to the heated atmosphere of a kiddy code (the lividity might be a bruise, they were cold because there were under the A/C) and in the time it took for the more experienced and better trained MICA paramedics to arrive and make the final decision, it them a chance to prepare the parents and show them that everything was being done to help. That seems reasonable to me.