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Sorry Guys I havent been around but its been stressful, My Fiance' is gone until July for OTS Been staying with friends...

this being said 2mths Late+Docs visit=Pregnancy

Pregnancy+stress=Miscarriage

Suffice it to say Ive been rather depressed with everything and Just havent been around Hope None of you guys missed me too terribly much, I should be around a lot more once I get resettled in GA
 
Celtictigeress said:
Sorry Guys I havent been around but its been stressful, My Fiance' is gone until July for OTS Been staying with friends...

this being said 2mths Late+Docs visit=Pregnancy

Pregnancy+stress=Miscarriage

Suffice it to say Ive been rather depressed with everything and Just havent been around Hope None of you guys missed me too terribly much, I should be around a lot more once I get resettled in GA
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Sorry to hear that. Does he know about the miscarriage? Are you going to Ft. Benning? ( I think that is the one in GA.)
 
He is actually AF We are going to Moody AFB in Valdosta.

He knows, he knows my voice didnt "sound right" I wasnt going to lie either talk about grounds for mistrust. Im going to Fl for 2weeks then to california for a week or so Just taking a time out while hes gone, Ill go back to work when hes out
 
I am so sorry! Two years ago we went thru an ectopic that wasn't caught in time.....so we had this rupture, internal bleeding, emergency surgery scenario.....and behind it 18 years of trying to have a baby. Not the same situation as yours, but the pain I am familiar with. You have an open invitation to e-mail me or PM me ANYTIME. My heart goes out to you. We're also prior military, with him having 15 years, and me 9 years, respectively (Army). If there is anything either of us can do, please don't hesitate to ask, we're at your disposal.

Take good care of yourself right now!

Welcome back to the forum.
 
Welcome Back Celtic, my heart goes out to you, We've been very lucky and I could only imagine the pain it causes you. Take care of yourself and visit us when you can!
 
Thanks guys, I mean it

Maria it wouldnt be so hard if he was here.. I refuse to work until he gets back Im "Healing" though I dont know who cried harder him or I.. I keep counting the days until he gets home Its so damn frustrating and I dont want to talk to his mom about it, solely for the fact that Shes Mexican (Noone get offended) so shes this devout catholic....Icould see the lectures now everything from premaritial sex to preventatives...

It has given me time to reflect and Now Im back and can add my 2 cents worth on everything, I know hes more stressed then I am But I also know I havent been on this forum lately, between dealing with the venomous snakes (I had an irritable canebreak that was ill) and everything else my mind is...there but not there.

Maria thank you, I dont have too many female friends and guys dont understand, if it gets rough Ill more then likely message you.. Ill be in Alabama for a week or so (his last 2 weeks of ots) and then off to Moody Goodbye SC (Again)

Wing heh, I just keep telling him its more practice, I dont want himstressed, he calls me and emails me every day making sure Im Okay... I dont think ill convince him Im fine otherwise until he sees me again
 
Sorry to hear about that....

Welcome back, though... we did miss you.
 
I can relate to the stress the military wreaks on relationships...when mine was involved with Desert Storm and we really hadn't been married long, I saw him perhaps on a generous estimate....2 1/2 months out of two years (he was there long before the actual "storm"). Being alone, and dealing with all that life brings, was hard without him. Trust me, there were days I wasn't tough at all, not one bit. I wish I could give you a big hug right now, and maybe have a cup of coffee with ya, and just sit. And if you need to...feel free...PM me...nothing you can say will bother me or burden me, I understand. Tonight when I go to bed I will have you on my mind, good thoughts, wishes and prayers are headed your way.
 
I'm sure he won't be ok until he sees you. I know if I were going through something so hard (even not that hard) it would kill my husband not to be able to be with me. This healing process should be done together, but being able to communicate even long distance and get through it is a monument to the relationship you both have. My prayers are with you.
 
Thanks guys

Maria Im going to PM you, i seriously need to vent.. I was stuck in fl for 2weeks because friends got married...I HATE my friends sister in law but it was beautiful...

Went to two theme parks and a place called "Olde towne" They had a disney store, I got so much tinkerbell that my room is pixiefied here....I will NOW be around though *kisses the ground*In a state I know with people I know...though Inow have a tiny puppy to bottlefeed and baby.. found him on the road in a bag hissister had been hit I moved her and took him home... hes a blessing Ill have to figure out how to placephotos
 
Celtictigeress,

I was wondering where you were and if everything was alright, but didn't want to prod.

I can't imagine what you've gone through, but please know what we're here for you.

Take care and stay in touch. Even if you don't post, send a quick PM or email just so we know all is well :)
 
I hated Not being around Matt I just got back from Florida and whatnot

Im doing fine just irritated usually if someone "Prods" Ill tell them to backoff if I dont want to talk about it..thats what took so long for me to write I needed space... Im back though and in midmove In a mth and a half ill be in GA...for 6mths... then moving again *eyeroll* Im not going to bother unpacking

to everyone here

thank you for your concern, Im just doing things and taking my mind off it....Ooooh hes calling gotta go!
 
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