Advice needed. bad first day.

This might not be the career for you...

Even so, it couldn't hurt to talk to someone about it.

I believe you are wrong. I have found that it is the so-called tough guys that have the issues.

Just be honest when you're hurting, figure out a way to best deal with it, and go save another life. I know it's tough to imagine but time will take away the sting although it may not completely wipe away the memory. The good far outweighs the bad, I think the bad is just essier to remember.

Should you feel ashamed because you froze up on your first day, no freakin way. Everybody on this forum knows that classroom does not equal field. They're different, and you will get adjusted.

By the way, the call you ran, you may not ever see one that bad again, ever. But you never know what each day brings.
 
People like you, who feel empathy, can go on to make the best medics. Heartless people moving slabs of meat, not so much.

So, because someone doesn't get worked up over what they see at work, but instead is able to focus on what needs to be done, can't become one of the "best" medics?


And I am in no way calling anyone a liar, but not even during clinicals, or any aspect of your careers/education/training have you been overwhelmed? With the task at hand, scope of the incident, your emotions, anything?

Clinicals are one of the last times you should be overwhelmed. You're on a truck with two veterans of EMS, who through their education and experience, have been tasked with being FTOs.

OK, so the education, training, and day to day operations never overwhelm you. What about dealing with all the people, people who train you, supervise you, report to you, or you are assigned to train yourself, ever get overwhelemed by one or more of them ?

I'm fortunate in this respect. I look at my supervisors as more of friends, than bosses. They'll go out to the local watering hole with us after work (every level: from the owner, down to the shift supervisor). They come to our hockey games, and join us for drinks after. Now that I think of it, maybe they just like getting us drunk... :unsure:
 
So, because someone doesn't get worked up over what they see at work, but instead is able to focus on what needs to be done, can't become one of the "best" medics?

Yep. I'm standing by it. You can be the most technically proficient medic in the world, saving lives and stamping out disease and pestilence daily, but if you lack empathy, people will look into your eyes for reassurance and see that you aren't clicking with them.


Clinicals are one of the last times you should be overwhelmed. You're on a truck with two veterans of EMS, who through their education and experience, have been tasked with being FTOs.

Maybe not overwhelmed with the whole thing, but there are times when I push a student all the way to flustered and uncertain on purpose. Some people have a little too much confidence. And FYI, FTO trucks are only guaranteed one FTO around here.
 
OK, so the education, training, and day to day operations never overwhelm you. What about dealing with all the people, people who train you, supervise you, report to you, or you are assigned to train yourself, ever get overwhelemed by one or more of them ?

There is a lot to learn, especially for me. A lot to do. But it really is still less than working 3 jobs trying to make a living in either fire or EMS. Eventually you sort out a schedule and it becomes a pattern.

Myers-Briggs seems to reliably classify me into their ENFJ category. while I don't agree with all of it, it is fairly accurate. I am very adept with people, which I have noticed doesn't show up well on a forum, but does make working with people rather easy.

I actually like to learn, so even when I am pouring through research or endlessly reading textbooks, I find it sort of comforting in that I only have to concentrate on what I am doing at that moment. Focus reduces stress.

As for the people who train me, all except a handful are actually looking out for my best interests usually. The few who aren't are just neglectful, and I have more than enough to do to dwell on them. I don't have anyone who actually opposes me in my daily life. Maybe on this forum, but once i close the window they are gone. It also doesn't really affect me in any tangible way.

It is my day to day hospital responsibilities I actually enjoy the most. I love to see every patient, performing procedures, talking with them, everything about it, often times wishing there were more. Some specific things I don't really care for, but they are not overly stressful or overwhelming by a long shot.

As for my actual paying jobs, reviewing textbooks is not overly stressing, especially since I spend so much time with textbooks anyway.

When I am off from school, I teach. I sometimes find it hard to believe I actually get paid for it. It is hands down the easiest job I ever worked. Definately nothing even remotely overwhelming there.

Hard at times, for certain, overwhelming, not at all.
 
Outrageous amounts of responsibility is my modus operandi.

Usually the only thing that overwhelms me is trying to explain things to simple minded people when they don't catch on right away.

I hope that this was not a shot at me.

To hotelco -- just because one should not be overwhelmed for clinicals does not mean it does not happen. Many ems agencys and hospitals let anyone precept ems students. How many students have you had or seen that are ill prepared for clinicals?
 
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