COmedic17
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I'm married to a fire medic. I haven't slept with any superiors. No one makes sexual comments towards me, and I have yet to be defiled due to gender. I also do not believe anyone is threatened by me. I have had no battle. I am viewed and treated as an equal. I have had no problems that were due to my gender. I feel equally respected as my male counterparts.So in reality: A lot of men will be threatened by your presence. They'll think you are there to fill a quota, slept or will sleep with someone. Are weak, can't do the job and will want/expect preferential treatment.
There are women on the job who do that (ie, a woman slept with her superiors, and later sued-the comments were abhorrent, but people showing their true colors).
What people say, and think are 2 different things, especially when you are physically present vs not. Being a physical and predominantly male career, you will have an uphill battle, but it's not impossible.
Don't expect kittens and rainbows and I'm sure you'll do fine.
Not saying this applies to you-but a lot of females that I have seen complain of sexual discrimination are complete BS. It's because they think the pshyscial standards should be lowered or any other standards due to them being female. If you can't preform at the level of your co workers - which are primarily male -then try harder. Or find a new job.