please help! need advice

dump him. if he begs to come back, only if leanrs to calm down about EMS. If he doesn't, find a good looking paramedic and date him instead. Ill be a medic in a year hint hint.
 
Diva, my heart goes out to both of you (I know, not too guy-ish to say, but it's the truth). Your boyfriend has issues, and real bad ones. You love him and don't want to lose him. Your priority is to work this stuff out before cementing yourself into the marriage closet, and certainly before considering children. We all get a little over-enthusiastic from time to time about our jobs, certain calls, etc; and I'm no exception. After 25+ years of being a fireman and EMT, I still love going to the firehouse. On occasion, my dear, kind and loving wife over 27 years has had to remind me of a few things. 1) I'm married to her, not my job. 2) When I'm too old, sore, and tired to be a fireman, she'll still be my wife 3) She will always be there for me, but (as much as I like them) the guys at the station will always just be the guys at the station. 4) If I love the job so damned much, I can just sleep in the *&^%&^%$ truck (This is after 1,2, and 3 haven't worked) He needs to get re-homed on what's more important, but right now I wouldn't want to make a bet on what his answer will be. Better to find out sooner than later, and probably a pretty cold way to state it, but you need to know. Good luck to you both..
 
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