OK, you guys have given me alot to think about. I'm going to look at the ED positions at the local Sentara hospitals - see what I can get without going EMT-P right now. I know you guys are right - if I want to be a nurse first, I need to be a nurse first. I do think I'll be a nurse with my EMT-P in the end no matter what. If it doesn't look like I'm going to earn anything more than $10/hr as an EMT-B then I might consider getting my EMT-P just so I can be around the $15 mark so I can help support us while my hubby's in school.
Unfortunately, time is of the essence for us, so even a 1-2 yr ADN program won't work right this moment. Unless, I can make $$ as an EMT-B and keep plugging away at my nursing classes.
If your local hospitals don't hire EMT-Bs in the ED, you could probably make a lot more as a CNA in the hospital AND get your education paid for while they work with your schedule.