Hi, I guess this is a good place to start as I am familar with your area.
I have heard very good things about the EMT Program at Modesto Junior College. It will take you 2 semesters to complete. First semester you will complete your EMR coursework. Then second semester, you enter the 6 unit EMT class/Lab.
While working on your bachelors degree and EMT, take an Anatomy/Lab, and Physiology/Lab course.
Once your finish your EMT program and pass your NREMT, find a part time EMT Job. In your area, Protransport-1(IFT), would be your best bet.
After 6 months at the EMT position, you can apply to Calif State Univ, Sacramento's Paramedic Program. This is one of the best Paramedic Schools in California. This program will be FULL TIME for 1350 hours.
You will complete all of the didactic course work at the campus 3 days a week 8 hours a day. During the didactic phase, you will also do a 4th, 12 hour day on occasional weeks, rotating through local Sacramento hospital's OB, ER, & OR's for 100hours.
At the end of didactic(roughly 2 semester's), you will spend 1 week in Alabama doing special EMS training on a grant funded by FEMA(all expenses paid including airfare).
After your return from Alabama, you will begin your full time hospital clinical rotations(roughly 3rd semester) and you will be able to complete all of your ER, OR, OB, Ambulatory care, rotation in Modesto as CSU Sacramento has a contract with Doctors Medical Center of Modesto(this saves you over 2 hours a day in commute time) depending on what part of SJ county you live in.
Finally, you will begin your ALS field internship on Ambulance(4th semester=480hrs) availble in the Manteca/Modesto area. Then prepare and sit for the NREMT-P.
You have an exciting road ahead of you with some excellent schools in your area. I wish you all the best.