Okay, so this is my first posting to this board. I am so glad that there is a community online for all of us crazy EMS people to chat.
My wife and I are paramedics at this service. We are both seasoned medics, did 911 at a very busy service for a few years, and decided to move to the beach. We got on at a quasi-critical care service, and are, by far, the most experienced and competent people here.
At one point, I was assigned a new hire partner who was in EMS years ago, the did police work, worked in an MD's office, got her LPN, and decided to get back into EMS as an EMT. Well, we do a lot of trael out of town, and the first weekend, we didn't get any critical patients, so I told her to ride the calls, and I would get us where we were going. Well, that worked out fine for that weekend, but as time went on, she started talking about how she had been in a terrible police car accident and was afraid to drive. So, I drove most of the time, and we never were up for a call when a critical patient came through, so I just went with it.
Well, one day, predictably, we got a serious patient. It was a time sensitive thing. I got in the back of the truck and started evaluating the patient. She told me to get enroute, she would take care of everything on the road. Well, we didn't have time to argue, though I did tell her that I wanted to evaluate the patient first. We took off, and I asked my wife to take her as a partner. She did, and she has not had any issues like this from her.
Well, one day, my wife and I went home during the shift, as we are all allowed to do, and a Call came in. It was an ALS call at a nursing home, and this EMT decided to take off with an EMT-Basic and run this call. My wife and I started to head in that direction, and the EMT called and said "it's okay. It's not a bad call." Well, we decided to meet them at the ER, and lo and behold, here they come around the corner lights and sirens. When we all got back to the station, I let her have it, telling her I would not sign off on this activities anymore, and if she screwed it up, it was on her.
Well, now we have another new hire, who is a fresh paramedic, and completely incompetent. The director wants to retrain him, hoping to give him a chance to get better, and he is understrict orders to only ride with me or my wife. But now, the EMT wants to take him, and is pushing really hard for it. She went as far as telling me "if it's a code, I can run the code with him. I can handle that."
The thing that complicates the situation is that she and my wife are very, very good friends. Going to the director would sort of be like a betrayal. Frankly, when the first incident happened, I really didn't want to be her friend anymore. This is just one of many slights that she has done to me. My wife swears she has no problem with her, but I have to still work with this EMT on alternating sundays, nevermind the fact that she is constantly trying to jump my calls. When she is with me, she acts like she has forgotten she is not a senior medic!
Help!
My wife and I are paramedics at this service. We are both seasoned medics, did 911 at a very busy service for a few years, and decided to move to the beach. We got on at a quasi-critical care service, and are, by far, the most experienced and competent people here.
At one point, I was assigned a new hire partner who was in EMS years ago, the did police work, worked in an MD's office, got her LPN, and decided to get back into EMS as an EMT. Well, we do a lot of trael out of town, and the first weekend, we didn't get any critical patients, so I told her to ride the calls, and I would get us where we were going. Well, that worked out fine for that weekend, but as time went on, she started talking about how she had been in a terrible police car accident and was afraid to drive. So, I drove most of the time, and we never were up for a call when a critical patient came through, so I just went with it.
Well, one day, predictably, we got a serious patient. It was a time sensitive thing. I got in the back of the truck and started evaluating the patient. She told me to get enroute, she would take care of everything on the road. Well, we didn't have time to argue, though I did tell her that I wanted to evaluate the patient first. We took off, and I asked my wife to take her as a partner. She did, and she has not had any issues like this from her.
Well, one day, my wife and I went home during the shift, as we are all allowed to do, and a Call came in. It was an ALS call at a nursing home, and this EMT decided to take off with an EMT-Basic and run this call. My wife and I started to head in that direction, and the EMT called and said "it's okay. It's not a bad call." Well, we decided to meet them at the ER, and lo and behold, here they come around the corner lights and sirens. When we all got back to the station, I let her have it, telling her I would not sign off on this activities anymore, and if she screwed it up, it was on her.
Well, now we have another new hire, who is a fresh paramedic, and completely incompetent. The director wants to retrain him, hoping to give him a chance to get better, and he is understrict orders to only ride with me or my wife. But now, the EMT wants to take him, and is pushing really hard for it. She went as far as telling me "if it's a code, I can run the code with him. I can handle that."
The thing that complicates the situation is that she and my wife are very, very good friends. Going to the director would sort of be like a betrayal. Frankly, when the first incident happened, I really didn't want to be her friend anymore. This is just one of many slights that she has done to me. My wife swears she has no problem with her, but I have to still work with this EMT on alternating sundays, nevermind the fact that she is constantly trying to jump my calls. When she is with me, she acts like she has forgotten she is not a senior medic!
Help!