fm_emt
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If the blood sucking lawyers allow it!
What? It's illegal to flirt with the nurses?!
oh god nooooo!
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What? It's illegal to flirt with the nurses?!
oh god nooooo!
Afraid so fm,if the nurse takes it wrong and its one that you dont know you can get into alot of trouble.
fm_emt
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Remember, if she thinks you're cute... it's flirting.
If not, it's sexual harrassment. :-D
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It's only harrassment if the other person asks you to stop and you don't. It can't be considered harrassment if the 'victim' never told you or someone in a position of authority over you, that they found the behavior offensive.
What individuals consider offensive is varied. It also has to do with the relationship between the parties. There are some people I will take no end of :censored: from because I know them well and dish out an equal amount back. But there are some people from whom the same amount of familiarity is just creepy.
What individuals consider offensive is varied. It also has to do with the relationship between the parties. There are some people I will take no end of :censored: from because I know them well and dish out an equal amount back. But there are some people from whom the same amount of familiarity is just creepy.
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I like to date in other people's service but I am told to keep that to myself. Whoops!
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Clearly you missed the joke in there. ;-)
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Oh fm, you are such a flirt! :wub: Wuv it!!
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So.. TCert... How'd you, um, make out?
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Was that pun intended, Jon?
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Not initially, but I realized before I posted it... so yesWas that pun intended, Jon?
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OK, so now that we've been on a couple of dates, I dunno. I mean, he's a nice guy, but the puzzle pieces aren't quite fitting together correctly. Besides, he's a little old...
I dunno, I'm going to keep my options open. Besides, I'm 19 and not looking for as serious a relationship as he is. (Go figure, a 19 y.o. wanting to have a fun time instead of looking to settle down...)
P.S. fyrdog, we're working together on the 20th!
I dunno, I'm going to keep my options open. Besides, I'm 19 and not looking for as serious a relationship as he is. (Go figure, a 19 y.o. wanting to have a fun time instead of looking to settle down...)
P.S. fyrdog, we're working together on the 20th!
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Age is nothin but a number. Im 32 and married to a 23 yr old. How old is the guy?
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Umm, he's 37.
And I know that age is just a number, I like older guys. My best friend/practically my twin is 34 (basically he's the male version of me.) And one of the last guys I dated was 31.
And I know that age is just a number, I like older guys. My best friend/practically my twin is 34 (basically he's the male version of me.) And one of the last guys I dated was 31.
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You're right, there's nothing wrong with the age gap...unless said 37 y.o. acts like he's 15...
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Ok, I give up! *revives old thread*
Forget everything else I said in this thread.
Throw it all out the window.
My old g/f & I broke up a couple months ago..I didn't say anything about it on here... and I've kind of been seeing a girl that I work with. Aside from the 2 kids (ick! kids! on the bright side, hers seem quiet and well behaved..) .. uh, she's amazing.
But she's your age.. (20) and I'm 31.
So forget what I said. If you're happy, and things fit, go for it. I was totally wrong and I admit it.
Forget everything else I said in this thread.
Throw it all out the window.
My old g/f & I broke up a couple months ago..I didn't say anything about it on here... and I've kind of been seeing a girl that I work with. Aside from the 2 kids (ick! kids! on the bright side, hers seem quiet and well behaved..) .. uh, she's amazing.
But she's your age.. (20) and I'm 31.
So forget what I said. If you're happy, and things fit, go for it. I was totally wrong and I admit it.
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i'm 33 and my boyfriend is 45. i love him, and he loves me. things work with us, but i think more than anything it's bc we are in similar places in our lives despite the age difference. neither one of us have kids, etc. we've been together for 3 years and living together for 1 1/2 years. however, we don't work together. good luck whatever happens. age can be an issue, but it's not always THE issue.
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Forget everything else I said in this thread.
Throw it all out the window.
My old g/f & I broke up a couple months ago..I didn't say anything about it on here... and I've kind of been seeing a girl that I work with. Aside from the 2 kids (ick! kids! on the bright side, hers seem quiet and well behaved..) .. uh, she's amazing.
But she's your age.. (20) and I'm 31.
So forget what I said. If you're happy, and things fit, go for it. I was totally wrong and I admit it.
Ok, everything I said about forgetting what I said? FORGET IT.
Don't date within the service. As I am now finding out the hard way, the drama just can't seem to stay outside of work.
DON'T DO IT!
meanwhile, I'm spitting up pieces of a broken heart.