An upside down lead II is usually never indicative of right axis deviation, but instead LEFT axis deviation
Think about how the ECG is reading the direction of the electrical impulses in the positive negative spectrum.
Heres a link to an ECG showing left axis deviation (LAD). Notice the negative QRS complex!
http://www.fammed.wisc.edu/medstudent/pcc/ecg/images/fig30.jpg
On the flight team or on a ground based unit seeing a negative QRS complex in lead II is a DEFINITE indication to do a 12 lead. Usually if you're applying the monitor, you can also justify doing a 12 lead. We only apply a monitor when we feel that there may be cardiac compromise either present or possible, thus MOST of the time a 12 lead is very indicated.
I had an elderly lady complaining of difficulty walking due to lead "weakness" no other complaints. A precautionary 12 lead showed a massive inferior infarction that went straight to the cath lab.
I personally believe that paramedics should have a physician level pathophys understanding and EMT's at least a medic level understanding of pathophys. Why not educate yourself? One of the most valuable books I ever purchased was Dale Dubin's Rapid interpretation of EKG's. You can find it for less than 20 bucks used on line.
Even if you're "only" an EMT you can use your knowledge to better understand the "whys" of what we do, and maybe pass along some cardiac knowledge to your partner who seems to need it very badly.