mycrofft
Still crazy but elsewhere
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Married and still at it 34 yrs later
Firefighter years 2 through 5. EMT years 4 through 11. Military years 1.5 through 23 (four years active, three months Desert Storm stateside, eighteen yrs reserve). 23 years as a nurse.
So...rule 1 is your marriage or partnership has to come first. One bad back injury, ethical slip, or other poor luck/action, and EMS is gone. Too old...gone. Get burned out...gone. Marriage: if you're lucky and work at it sometimes, for the rest of your lives.
Besides, did you take an oath to honor til death EMS? No. Cherish and comfort it? No. And beleive me, it didn't do that for you.
Be clear about what you want and need to your partner/spouse, but be as sure as you can about what you want or need and have plan B ready so you can carry your weight.
Firefighter years 2 through 5. EMT years 4 through 11. Military years 1.5 through 23 (four years active, three months Desert Storm stateside, eighteen yrs reserve). 23 years as a nurse.
So...rule 1 is your marriage or partnership has to come first. One bad back injury, ethical slip, or other poor luck/action, and EMS is gone. Too old...gone. Get burned out...gone. Marriage: if you're lucky and work at it sometimes, for the rest of your lives.
Besides, did you take an oath to honor til death EMS? No. Cherish and comfort it? No. And beleive me, it didn't do that for you.
Be clear about what you want and need to your partner/spouse, but be as sure as you can about what you want or need and have plan B ready so you can carry your weight.